This is what a lot of people say about love.
1. We need to find it
2. We need to fall in it
3. Look for it in one special soulmate
What if I told you the list above are lies.
This whole idea of falling in and out is a delusional one love is actually something you can’t fall into.
It’s a state of being either you are into it or you are not,we are not falling in and out of love but we are falling in and out of a momentary craving,a desire.
So this is not love it a desire let’s not mistake desire for love.
Love is tipically measured as give and take, your actions their actions you do this they do that an then when they don’t do that you stop loving them.
This is not love but transaction let’s don’t mistake trasactionality for love.
Many of us depend on our partners for a sense of belongings, validation approvals.they depend on their for all sorts of things and when they don’t deliver we stop loving them.
This is dependency for love but not pure or real love.
Rebecca Owusu Mends is a gospel sensation born on the 12th of July 1983. She hails from Apam in the...